Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Premature ejaculation: definition, assessment and management

Premature ejaculation can be a distressing condition for men and their partners. Premature, early or rapid ejaculation are all terms used to describe the event whereby men are unable to control ejaculation during sexual arousal and/or activity. The control of ejaculation is thought to be related to changes in serotonin and dopaminergic neurotransmission,1 specifically 5-hydroxytryptamine (5-HT)2C receptor hyposensitivity and/or 5-HT1A receptor hypersensitivity, but the precise mechanism controlling ejaculation has yet to be determined.
Recently, premature ejaculation (PE) has become characterised by ejaculating within few minute or before partner or self-satisfaction. The time between vaginal penetration and ejaculation is referred to as intra-vaginal ejaculatory latency time (IELT), although ejaculatory latency time (ELT) may be a more appropriate term as it acknowledges other forms of sexual activity. Normal ejaculatory latency has been cited as being six to thirteen minutes after vaginal penetration.
Definition - PE has been defined as persistent ejaculation with minimal stimulation, which is not a result of withdrawal of opiates, and that results in marked distress. This definition assumes regular sexual activity with the same person for around six months. Some definitions - inability to delay ejaculation (no self controle) on all or most vaginal penetrations; and negative consequences (eg distress, bother, guilt / depression, avoidance of intimacy).
The prevalence of PE:- Based on epidemiological data, PEis estimated to be 22.7 per cent, which is higher than the estimated prevalence of erectile dysfunction.
The causes of PE are not precisely known. This is due partly to the different types of PE and partly to a lack of consensus on definition. There are four proposed types of PE. Lifelong PE is thought to be caused by neurobiological or genetic factors, whereas acquired PE might be caused by hormonal or vitamin deficiency, poor neurological co-ordination, infection, withdrawal of opiates, performance anxiety or other psychosexual or relationship concerns. The remaining categories are not thought to have any biological causation.
Type of premature ejaculation: 1- Lifelong. 2- Acquired. 3- Natural variable. 4- Situational.
The nature of the problem needs to be established, as PE may be caused by prostatitis (more commonly subclinical prostatitis), necessitating an examination of the prostate on USG. It is also essential to know what the patient wants out of the consultation, as some men expect sexual activity to be mutually orgasmic and have unrealistic expectations of normal ejaculatory latency. If the prostate is tender on examination, treatment with 500mg ciprofloxacin twice daily for four weeks may resolve the problem. It is also important to determine whether the man has erectile dysfunction rather than PE.
No further examinations are needed, although the opportunity can be taken to look at testosterone, lipid and glucose levels.
Treatment of premature ejaculation
The most common treatment options for PE are treatment of basic cause that is leading to PE. Behavioural therapies; local anaesthetics, and selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) or equivalent medication. Phospho-diesterase type 5 inhibitors (PDE5Is) have been used, but their precise mechanism of action is unclear.
A man who fears that he will lose an erection before ejaculating may well increase the speed of intercourse, thus giving himself PE. The underlying problem in these circumstances is loss of tumescence related to the narrowing of the pudendal artery, in which case a PDE5I may be a more appropriate prescription.
While SSRIs have not been found to maintain ejaculatory delay in all men after cessation of treatment, some with acquired PE have been able to sustain ejaculatory delay. Where possible, appointments should involve both partners, as the solution involves a couple rather than a solitary approach.
Sensate focus
Each couple will have their own ‘rules’ for sexual activity and intimacy, and negative feelings, eg pressure to perform, tiredness, pain, upset, guilt or worry, can affect both partners' desire for sexual activity. These feelings need to be articulated and discussed for PE to resolve. If the relationship has deteriorated to the point where no intimacy is present, or where no sexual activity is attempted, relationship counselling rather than sex therapy is needed. Behavioural therapy, Squeeze technique, Stop/start technique have their limitations. Kegal exercise helps.
New treatments
Recently, two further treatments have been investigated, with promising results:
topical eutectic mixture for PE (TEMPE)27 – an aerosol delivery of lidocaine-prilocaine;
dapoxetine – a serotonin transport inhibitor and the first SSRI licensed for treatment of PE.The potential advantages of dapoxetine are that it is a short-acting SSRI with few side-effects. It has been found to be effective on first dose, rather than after seven to ten days, as with other SSRIs.
The choice of whether to start medication or refer to a sex therapist can be difficult. A two-month course may be sufficient to help alleviate the pressure on men to perform in their sexual relationships. At the end of two months, a re-assessment of whether the man has been able to delay and control ejaculation can be undertaken. If there is no improvement, alternative pharmacological therapies and sex therapy may help.
PREMATURE EJACULATION TIPS
Oil massage or Inject-able preparation do not help in PE. Treatment and medicines do not cost more, Vigra and other preparations are not used for PE(used for ED).. Over counter preparations should not be taken..
New advances n treatment of premature ejaculation has taken place in India. Drug which was available in USA, also approved by US FDA, is available in India now......
It is very effective , safe, and improve performance significantly. Get your sexologist opinion today.
Dr Deshmukh MD Sexologist & Psychiatrist
9923291312

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Worried you’re not good at sex?

Performance anxiety is a fear we usually associate with men. But women can be equally nervous about sex. Especially since many of us have self-image issues. This can become a block to the spontaneous flow of sexual feelings and actions. Obviously, you will not be able to have fun. “In addition to this, performance anxiety can result in avoidance of sexual encounters, lowered self-esteem, relation discord and sexual dysfunction,” says sexologist. Here are five easy ways you can get rid of your concerns:
Have a drink - Alcohol lowers your inhibitions and relieves your mind of the pressure to perform in bed. Just make sure you do not drink so much that you pass out in the middle of the act. That is not going to make your partner happy.
Increase foreplay - If the two of you spend some more time getting comfortable with each other and each other’s bodies, you will be able to focus on the pleasure instead of your issues. Try showering together, give each other massages – basically, explore each other’s bodies.
Take a trip- Use a holiday to increase intimacy between you and your partner. Do things that both of you find relaxing. Once you are more comfortable with each other, you will find that getting intimate with each other becomes easier and more natural too.
Find new locations - Don’t restrict sex to the bedroom. Try other locations in or outside your house. This way, the focus is more on the place and less on you. We recommend the dining table, a swimming pool, your bathtub or even your couch. At the end of the day, all you need to do is relax.
Learn to enjoy this wonderful experience with your partner.
Dr Deshmukh

Give up smoking for better sex

Giving up smoking can dramatically improve flagging sex lives, according to a study conducted by a Hong Kong university. The University of Hong Kong study found 53.8 percent of smokers being treated for impotence said that their problems eased within six months of stubbing out their nicotine habits. That figure compared to just 28.1 percent of men treated for erectile dysfunction who continued smoking, meaning quitters have a 91.5 percent greater chance of a better sex life. Sophia Chan, a professor who helped conduct the survey, said erectile dysfunction was "very prevalent" in China and Asia and added that programmes to help smokers quit should be extended across the region. Her colleague Lam Tai-hing said: "Smokers should be aware of such adverse effects from their smoking and should quit now to prevent erectile dysfunction and other diseases caused by smoking. "In fact, erectile dysfunction patients who smoke can expect some quick benefits after quitting smoking."More than 700 men suffering from erectile dysfunction aged 30 to 50 took part in the three-year study by the university's School of Public Health and Nursing.
Dr Deshmukh

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

NEW TABLET FOR INCREASE SEX DESIRE IN FEMALES

hypoactive sexual desire disorder treatment for females-
Washington, May 24 (ANI): Good news for women who want to perk up the action in their bedroom-the Food and Drug Administration committee is thinking of endorsing the first pill designed to do for women what Viagra does for men-boost their sex lives. A German pharmaceutical giant wants to sell a drug with the decidedly unsexy name "flibanserin," which has shown prowess for sparking a woman's sexual desire by fiddling with her brain chemicals.
The FDA's Reproductive Health Drugs Advisory Committee will meet on June 18 to consider the request. But the prospect of the drug's approval has already triggered debate over whether the medication, like others in the pipeline, represents a long-sought step toward equity for women's health or the latest example of the pharmaceutical industry fabricating a questionable disorder to sell unnecessary and potentially dangerous drugs. "Achieving a happy and healthy sex life can be a real and important problem for some women. But we have lots of questions about the 'pink Viagra,'" the Washington Post quoted Amy Allina of the National Women's Health Network, a Washington-based advocacy group, as saying. Viagra's catapult to blockbuster status after its 1998 approval set off a flurry of interest in me-too medications for women. However, drugmaker Pfizer's hopes that its "little blue pill" would also ignite female libido fizzled, making it clear that a woman's sexuality is more complicated than a man's. But, Germany's Boehringer Ingelheim is optimistic that flibanserin is on the verge of becoming the first prescription medication to tap what some have estimated could be a 2 billion dollar market in the United States alone. "We believe women deserve options and we're hoping flibanserin may represent a safe and effective option for many women," said Michael Sand, who heads the company's clinical research on flibanserin. Scientists found that flibanserin, developed as an antidepressant, was ineffective for treatment of depression. But the drug appeared to produce an unexpected side effect: boosting women's libido. This prompted the company to study it for hypoactive sexual desire disorder, or HSDD, an otherwise unexplained loss of sexual thoughts, fantasies and desire that can cause significant emotional distress. Some research suggests 10 percent of women may suffer from HSDD.

HOMOSEXUALITY, GAY, SAME SEX PROBLEM

TREATMENT OF HOMOSEXUALITY, GAY, SAME SEX PROBLEM IN PUNESexual Identity: - Pattern of persons biological sexual character like chromosomes, External & internal genitalia, hormonal compositions, gonads & secondary sexual characteristics.
Gender Identity: - Individuals sense of maleness or femaleness. Like, I am boy / girl.
Sexual Orientation :- Object of a person’s sexual impulses. Ex Homosexual, Heterosexual, Bisexual.
Homosexuality is considered normal in many developed countries. In some countries it is legalize also. Same sex relationship (GAY/ LESBIAN) was involved in International Classification of Diseases (ICD) but it was removed from both ICD-10 & DSM-IV.
Causes of homosexuality are many – it may be normal , it may be part of bisexual relationship, it may be due to psychological problems, it may be due to some life events mainly related to childhood, it may be due to hormonal problems, it may be due to psychiatric disorders, and other so many etiological theories (proved / unproved) …
In India due to social restrains, parental expectations, stigma related to homosexuality, legal problems client having this problem do not get diagnosed adequately or do no communicate. Clients in India are afraid about same so do not take proper advice regarding sex education, treatment, HIV risk involved, Depression and so many problems related to homosexuality. In these risks of abuse, HIV (AIDS) and other sexually transmitted disease, loss of job or relationship problems, Depression, suicide, stress, social withdrawal, Alcohol and other are common. They need counselor or doctor who will understand them, support them, help them to come out of their problems, treatment when required, and educate them regarding risk involved. It also required to introduce them with groups having same problems to support them (Group therapy).
Out-come of treatment / prognosis of change in sexual orientation:- Good if age is less than 35 years, some heterosexual arousal, high motivation for reorientation.
IN PUNE WE ARE WORKING WITH PROBLEMS OF PEOPLE REPORTING HOMOSEXUALITY, WE DO SUPPORT THEM, TREAT THEM, EXPLAIN THEM / EDUCATE THEM REGARDING SEX EDUCATION / HIV AND OTHER RISK INVOLVED. WE HAVE COUNSELLOR AND DOCTOR TO DIAGNOSE AND TREAT THEM.
DR  DESHMUKH IS MBBS, MD SEXOLOGIST - PSYCHIATRIST.

SEX EDUCATION - YOU SHOULD KNOW THIS....

STUDY BY SEXOLOGIST DOCTOR ON SIZE OF / SMALL SIZE PENIS IN PUNEStudy conducted by Dr S Deshmukh MBBS, MD Sexologist practicing in Deccan area of Pune in 2007 -2008 in his clinic for treatment of sexual disorder and sex problems. There were so many questions so start this study as -1) What is normal size of Indian male penis? 2) What are the factors or causes responsible for small size? 3) What can be done? Is there any practicable treatment options available? 4) What are methods used in India & Abroad? 5) What is ideal age to start treatment? 6) What are side effects? 7) How much improvement can be achieved? 8) Dose size matters for females?
Results of this study
NORMAL SIZE OF PENIS :- As per International norms average size of normal penis is around 4 inches ( 7 – 11 cm) when flaccid ( non erect) and 6 inches ( 14 – 18 cm) when erect. Flaccid penis dimension bears little relation with erect dimension that means small flaccid penis can increase significantly in length when erect but long looking flaccid penis may not increase in that proportion. As per studies most of normal size males also wrongly perceive their size smaller and feel inferior. SIZE DOSENT MATTER WHAT MATTER IS METHOD AND PERFORMANCE. Treatment for small size penis is complicated with less promising results.

CIRCUMCISION :- Is a procedure in which prepuce ( fore skin) over glance is surgically removed. It is commonly practiced as religious procedure but also indicated in conditions like Phymosis / para-phymosis which may cause pain while intercourse. Circumcision dose not have any effect on normal sexual life if performed correctly. Its myth/wrong that it reduces ejaculatory time or can lead to hyper sensitivity or irritation, in fact it helps in reducing chances of infection / cancer.

EJACULATION:- Forceful propulsion of semen and seminal fluid during orgasm. Ones prostate contract ejaculation is inevitable. Normal volume of ejaculation is 2.5ml, which contains around 120 millions sperms. Only one healthy sperm is required for pregnancy. It is said that larger the ejaculatory volume more is the orgasmic pleasure.

Brain normal response which controls normal sexual activity:-
Sexual excitement:- Brain areas required to function normally:- Orbito- frontal cortex of brain related to emotions, Left anterior Cingulate cortex of brain related to hormonal balance, Caudate nucleus, limbic system, brain stem plays important role in sexual behaviour and excitement and orgasm. Excitement of Nucleus Paragigantocellularis in brain stem stimulate pelvic Lumbosacral spinalcord with release of Serotonin, which can inhibit ejaculation. So hyper activity of same pathway is responsible for patient of delayed ejaculation and hypo activity leads to Premature- ejaculation. Neurotransmitters responsible for sexual activities are - Dopamine (Desire / libido), Serotonin ( Inhibit orgasm & reduce desire), Oxytocin ( released with orgasm). Drugs related to these neurotransmitters can improve or deteriorate sexual function.

Sexual Identity: - Pattern of persons biological sexual character like chromosomes, External & internal genitalia, hormonal compositions, gonads & secondary sexual characteristics.
Gender Identity: - Individuals sense of maleness or femaleness. Like, I am boy / girl.

Sexual Orientation :- Object of a person’s sexual impulses. Ex Homosexual, Heterosexual, Bisexual.
Out-come of treatment / prognosis of change in sexual orientation:- Good if age is less than 35 years, some heterosexual arousal, high motivation for reorientation.

Research by Kinsey – nearly all men and three fourth of women masturbate sometime during their lives.
Both man or women who, as children had been sexually abused by an adult are more likely, as adult to have had more number sexual partner, decrease desire in sex, homo/ bi-sexual identification, unhappy, depressed.
Resolution of orgasm can give feeling of well-being and relaxation. If orgasm remains incomplete specially in female can lead to – irritability, discomfort, frustration, relation problem with husband, headache, depression, pain/ iching in sexual organ, fatigue.

Hypoactive sexual desire disorder:- Due to other sexual dysfunction like premature ejaculation / erectile dysfunction, unattractive partner, decrease testosterone, decrease dopamine, fear about sex, stress, anxiety, depression. Relation problems between couple and abstinence from sex for long period can also decrease desire for sexual activity.
Sexual aversion disorder: - can be due to rape, abuse, pain / trauma, shame or guilt related to sexual activity. Sexual arousal disorder can be due to hormonal problem or other medicinal use.

Delayed ejaculation:- can be due to drugs like anti-hypertensive, anti-depressant, Methyl-Dopa, hyperglycemia, alcohol, relation problems, phobia/ unable to focus.

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

EFFECTS OF MASTURBATION ON MENS BODY

The effects of masturbation and over masturbation upon mans body was recently looked at.
And what exactly did they find?
Common masturbation and ejaculation stimulate acetylcholine/parasympathetic nervous functions. Excessive motivation can result in over production of sex hormones and neurotransmitters such as acetylcholine and dopamine and serotonin. And since not only do we all like different things or have more or less sexual response in different places, but we also all will often not be in the mood for the exact same things every day, or find the same techniques get us there from year to year, it gets even more complicated. What works for any of us tends to be the things we discover just by experimenting with our own bodies, over a decent period of time.
Normal masturbation frequencies differ from gender to gender and age to age. Men masturbate more frequently than women, and younger men masturbate more than older men. It is not uncommon for a young man in his 20s to masturbate every day, and even several times a day, depending on hormone production and lifestyle AND IT MAY BE COMPLITELY HEALTHY. A healthy sexual behavior, masturbation is a common practice by many men and women of all ages. Over-masturbation does have (very few and also not proved) some negative effects , though, affecting the nervous system, genitals and general sexual health.
Positive Non-Sexual Effects: - Masturbation relieves general stress and tension. It brings on a sense of relaxation and induces sleep. Another benefit of masturbation is the relief of headaches and menstrual cramps.
Negative Symptoms of the Masturbation: - Other than immediate needs for a towel or tissue, the effects of masturbation upon the male body were:* Fatigue. Feeling tired all the time* Lower back pain* Thinning hair / Hair Loss* Soft / Weak Erection* Eye floaters or fuzzy vision* Groin / Testicular Pain* Pain or cramp in the pelvic cavity or/and tail bone.
Sexual Effects: - Men who over-masturbate often do not have any major sexual side effect or problems .
Further, obsessive masturbation may be offensive to your sexual partner and as it may be seen as a substitute for seeming unsatisfactory intercourse. Frequent sexual activity masturbation or intercourse and also creates a surplus of sex hormones and neurotransmitters in the brain. With an excess of these chemicals, you may feel fatigued, and some men report weaker erections over the long term.Negative Side Effects: - Medical community concurs that there are no negative physical side effects however some people may develop guilt from the act due to their religious and/or cultural background. Also, compulsive masturbation may be a symptom of an obsessive/compulsive disorder if it interferes with a person's daily life and expert help should be taken.
Dr Deshmukh MBBS, MD Sexologist
9923291312

SAFE PERIOD FOR SEX TO AVOID PREGNANCY

Safe Period And Pregnancy - The following is the best & safe method to avoid pregnancy:- First, one should know the duration of the cycle, i.e. first day of the last menstrual bleeding to the first day of the present menstrual bleeding. This is the duration of the menstrual cycle. This duration varies from person to person & is usually between 26 to 31 days. Ovulation ( that is female cell which is required for pregnancy which get released only ones in month) approximately occurs in the middle of the cycle, i.e. duration of the cycle - (minus) 14 days (this also varies) in easy words mid cycle if cycle is of 28 days. A week before and a week after the approximate day of ovulation( 14 +/- 7 ) is considered to be Fertile period. The days apart from this is called the safe periods, where the fertilization does not takes place. So, to calculate the safe period you must know the fertile period. Calculation of fertile period: The shortest cycle minus 18 days=1st day of fertile period. The longest cycle minus 10 days= last day of fertile period. Ex: if a women's menstrual cycle varies from 26days to 31days cycle, The shortest cycle [26days] minus18days=8th day. The longest cycle [31days] minus 10days=21st day. Thus, 8th to 21st day of each cycle counting from first day of menstrual period is considered as fertile period. Period other than this fertile period in a menstrual cycle is considered as SAFE PERIOD. If one wants to avoid pregnancy avoid intercourse during fertile period or use contraceptive like condoms durring this perido. Safe period is safe for sexual activity(commonly frist 2 days after bleeding stops & last one week before next cycle in 28/4 MC).
- DR. DESHMUKH MBBS, MD SEXOLOGIST - 9923291312

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